Gender roles in general piss me off. But femmes, those women that claim femme and revert to the role of housewife barbie really piss me off. Femininity and masculinity are on a spectrum, some individuals are more one than the other, most are inbetween however gender is a whole other spectrum and these two are correlated but not identical!!!!! You can be a femme man. You can be a masculine woman. You can be a femme male bodied woman. You can claim ANYTHING as long as it makes sense to you! You can be femme and still be the bread winner. You can be femme and not be a housewife. You can be femme and not a barbie.
I think i'm officially giving up labels completely. I identify with many labels but not just ONE describe me. I feel very sorry for those one dimensional people that do. Those people that live on the surface. Dive deeper. Educate yourself about your herstory/history. Enrich your life.
Or else you might as well be dead.
i loves u
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